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There had been a time when, like Witt, I approached non-monogamy with a kind of puppyish idealism. It was 2017 and terms like “poly” and “ethically non-monogamous” (ENM) had just begun to penetrate the Dec 1, 2022 Portland OR Moda Center The 1975 Poster shirt besides I will buy this mainstream—as refreshing as a cold Pepsi on a hot day. It felt like the start of something brave and new—the start of a redefinition, as Witt says. Recently, though, I’ve begun to wonder whether we weren’t all a little too hasty in embracing this newfound terminology. For far too long, all I have heard is horror stories—friends (almost always women) unmoored by the dynamics in these “relationships.” “Nowadays,” says Witt, “you see the term ‘ethically non-monogamous’ [on someone’s profile] and it doesn’t necessarily mean that the person will behave ethically or articulate what those ethics mean. More often it’s like they’re making a pronouncement: ‘Play at your own risk, I’m not going to take any emotional responsibility for you.’”

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Take 31-year-old Kate, for example. She recently matched on Feeld with a man who was in an open relationship. What she liked about him—let’s call him Shaun—was that he went to great lengths to be clear about how and why he’d opened the Dec 1, 2022 Portland OR Moda Center The 1975 Poster shirt besides I will buy this relationship with his “primary partner” (whom he’d been with for five years). He was clear about what his boundaries were, and how he hoped to bring other people, like Kate, into his life. It was refreshing, she explains, to have such a forthright conversation about what they both wanted. She hadn’t set out to date like this, but Shaun made it all sound so easy. Plus, she had recently found that the ubiquity of non-monogamy—if not in practice, then certainly in app bios—made it hard to avoid. “There are maybe three monogamists left in London,” she quips. “And they’re all short.” She had a lot in common with Shaun, and they had a similar sense of humor, so after a week of messaging, she was excited to meet him for a drink. That first date was fun, they shared a kiss and kept talking. After their second date, Shaun came back to Kate’s and they slept together. “At about two in the morning, he turned to me and said, ‘By the way, my girlfriend and I have a rule that we can’t stay the night at other people’s places.’” In all the many hours of conversation about Shaun’s boundaries and his primary partner’s comfort levels, this “rule” had never come up.

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There had been a time when, like Witt, I approached non-monogamy with a kind of puppyish idealism. It was 2017 and terms like “poly” and “ethically non-monogamous” (ENM) had just begun to penetrate the Dec 1, 2022 Portland OR Moda Center The 1975 Poster shirt besides I will buy this mainstream—as refreshing as a cold Pepsi on a hot day. It felt like the start of something brave and new—the start of a redefinition, as Witt says. Recently, though, I’ve begun to wonder whether we weren’t all a little too hasty in embracing this newfound terminology. For far too long, all I have heard is horror stories—friends (almost always women) unmoored by the dynamics in these “relationships.” “Nowadays,” says Witt, “you see the term ‘ethically non-monogamous’ [on someone’s profile] and it doesn’t necessarily mean that the person will behave ethically or articulate what those ethics mean. More often it’s like they’re making a pronouncement: ‘Play at your own risk, I’m not going to take any emotional responsibility for you.’”

Take 31-year-old Kate, for example. She recently matched on Feeld with a man who was in an open relationship. What she liked about him—let’s call him Shaun—was that he went to great lengths to be clear about how and why he’d opened the Dec 1, 2022 Portland OR Moda Center The 1975 Poster shirt besides I will buy this relationship with his “primary partner” (whom he’d been with for five years). He was clear about what his boundaries were, and how he hoped to bring other people, like Kate, into his life. It was refreshing, she explains, to have such a forthright conversation about what they both wanted. She hadn’t set out to date like this, but Shaun made it all sound so easy. Plus, she had recently found that the ubiquity of non-monogamy—if not in practice, then certainly in app bios—made it hard to avoid. “There are maybe three monogamists left in London,” she quips. “And they’re all short.” She had a lot in common with Shaun, and they had a similar sense of humor, so after a week of messaging, she was excited to meet him for a drink. That first date was fun, they shared a kiss and kept talking. After their second date, Shaun came back to Kate’s and they slept together. “At about two in the morning, he turned to me and said, ‘By the way, my girlfriend and I have a rule that we can’t stay the night at other people’s places.’” In all the many hours of conversation about Shaun’s boundaries and his primary partner’s comfort levels, this “rule” had never come up.

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